How to Avoid Abduction by UFOs in Family Court

 

The 3-Step Gamechanger is a quantum leap strategy for transforming your ability to speak truth to power without hesitation. The three steps are also good for writing Learning Stories, and for documenting everything a judge needs to know to help your family. It will be obvious if you aren’t learning anything, or if your story has been abducted by an alien intelligence with a UFO.  You are responsible. 

If you mess up and lose track of time, the cause is lost. That is why you document everything. Notice, recognize, respond. If it happens, write it down. After you write down what happens, write what you might be learning about, and what you might be ready to learn about next. Taking these steps is going to help you process what happens, and make sense of it. Taking the steps will help you present all the pertinent facts to a judge.

If you messed up before, can you bury the details of your situation within the tallest mountain of paperwork you can muster? Can you fly under the radar to admit facts into evidence? You could try, but the real question is why? If your case depends on a hope the judge will not question the facts, you must be worried the real story will not hold up in court. Either you are worried about the significance of the facts, or you don’t believe in yourself. 

If you are not aware of the significance of the facts of your own story, it is not your story. If you don’t remember what happened, and somebody else does, you must defer to their version of events. It is their story, not yours. They can make whatever case they want out of it. That is something to worry about.

If you are not confident in your ability to speak the truth without enmity or bitterness, you will not be able to boldly go where no man has gone before. You will act like the truth is “out there,” and you are the victim of some vast cosmic conspiracy. This will only result in limiting the gravity of the real story, and the judge will judge you instead of the facts.  

Make an inventory of all the ingredients in the psychic soup of your mental and emotional atmosphere, and where they come from. 

Notice any thoughts, images, feelings, memories, and associations that float into your conscious awareness. If you are unable to remember where any unidentified floating objects (UFOs) come from, simply note the size, shape, location, texture, and temperature of the objects.

Recognize that your awareness is what gives objects their dimensionality in the story of your life. The more you are able to calmly observe the dimensionality of your experiences, the more you will see that your experiences are of this world, and belong to reality. Your life is happening in space and time, and the universe of facts is limited. 

 

Respond by using the 3 Step Gamechanger to transform fear of UFOs into hopeful action. Notice, recognize, respond. 

The steps are simple, but you have to take the steps, and you have to keep on taking them. Otherwise you may have quite a story, but you will not be learning anything. You won’t think that deeply about the purpose of your own life, and you won’t have anything to say for the hero of your own family story.

There is a saying in family law that goes “If it isn’t documented, it didn’t happen.” Write down what you remember. Then review. Question yourself. Did that really happen? If you are not sure, it may just as well not have happened. 

Why do you think you remember things a certain way? Write that down. Memories can be faulty. What is the truth of what you remember? Even if it is not the whole truth, your role as the leader of your family is to be coherent in the truth you are aware of, as supported by actual facts. 

Start with the facts. Notice. Then write what you think you might be learning about the truth. Recognize. Finally, make a guess about what you think you are ready to learn about next and take the first step to make it happen. Respond. 

Use the power of Learning Stories to remember what there is to remember, so you can be prepared to tell the difference between the false and the true without hesitation. 

Listen for the heartbeat of your humanity, and prevent facts from being used by the intelligence of anyone with an alienated or alienating agenda who might otherwise be able to abduct your family story. 

UFOs are only good for alien conspiracy theories, not for speaking truth to power if you have anything to say on behalf of your family hero. The family hero is able to digest all of the ingredients in the psychic soup, and use their energy to respond to questions of fear and delusion with calmness and equanimity. This is the only power that protects your family from identity theft on a cosmic level.

* GODSPEED stands for “Gather Only Data in Sync with the Purpose of Every Excellent Deed.”